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It’s Your Life, Live It To The Fullest!

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You have the power to break through and live your life to the fullest. It’s your choice to take action now.  Start with a clean slate, take a chance, make a choice, Why? Because you deserve it.

There are 3 C’s in life, Choice, Chance and Change. “You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

If you want a change in your life you need to choose to just go for something you want, instead of whatever life has given you.

You need to accept the fact that when you do decide to go for your dreams, that you step away from the crowd and create your own path in life.  There will be failures, but that’s just part of the process, just like growing up, only they call them, growing pains.

The founder of Amazon, Jeff Bezos, said: “I could accept failing, But I could not accept not trying… and never knowing what if.”

If you ever stop going for your dreams, how will you ever know if they would have become real?

All of us want a life that is magical, magnificent and one of fulfillment.  Yet many of us think that a magnificent life is something that happens to us, almost as if it is something done to us without us doing anything at all.  We think that a life of fulfillment is something reserved only for the lucky ones.  We can all have a life full of memorable moments and happiness regardless of our circumstances. You just have to believe and want it.

“Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away!”

Understand that when you feel dissatisfaction, that it is really the first step to a better life.  It’s nature’s way of saying that there is something better out there for you, you just need to go out and find it.  Without hate, we would not know love.  Without tiredness, we would not know what energy felt like.  Without Darkness, we would not know how beautiful the sun is.

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One way to feel great about your life, is look for more things to smile about in it.  Know matter what it is or what happens to you, just smile.

You’ll be amazed at how much a smile can change your attitude and change the way others look at you.

With Honesty Comes Truth!

41CO8JiU5hL._AC_US218_Here is a short story from my book,  “The Pollyanna Effect”.

 

Long, long ago an emperor was to find someone to take over his throne. He had all the young people gather around and he gave them each a seed. He told them all to go home and grow the seed, then come back in one year. He would then judge the plants and choose the next king.

Everyone was talking about how big their plant had grown, except one person named Ling. Ling had watered his seed and cared for it every day, still nothing. A year had passed and everyone was taking their big beautiful plants to the emperor. Ling told his mom, I am ashamed, my seed did not grow. His mom said to him, take your pot with the seed to the emperor anyway, be honest. Ling was humiliated and all the others were laughing at him.

The emperor looked at all the big beautiful plants and was amazed. He then saw Ling hiding in the background, the Emperor motioned for Ling to come up to the thrown. The Emperor then made the announcement that Ling would be the next king, everyone was in shock. The Emperor then said, I gave you all boiled seeds to plant, knowing they would not grow, Ling was the only one who was honest enough to tell the truth.

 

What Is Your Happy?

Everyone has a different HAPPY.  happy baby

Some people find happiness in pleasing others, while others find happiness in power and domination.

Some people define their happy as a billion dollars.

Others think the way to happiness and a meaningful life is to get closer to God and give up everything material.

Still others think the ultimate idea of happiness is freedom!

What is your ‘HAPPY’?

I’m taking a positive psychology class, and they say that their are 10 positive emotions. Believe it or not Happy is not one of them. Happy is a broad term that describes a lot of emotions.

The top 10 positive emotions are:

Joy, Gratitude, Serenity, Interest, Hope, Pride, Amusement, Inspiration, Awe and LOVE!

Maybe that’s why they say, “Everyone has a different happy”, because there are so many emotions that make you feel happy!

Positive emotions also have a lot to do with your immune system function, which is why I believe that when dealing with cancer you need to stay positive.  It’s like a nutrient to your body.

I’ll keep you updated on how my positive psychology class is going along the way. Would love feedback from you on what your take of being positive is!positive