Research indicates that, at the subconscious level, our minds have a tendency to focus on the optimistic while, at the conscious level, we have a tendency to focus on the negative.
Let’s face it, life can be hard, but why make it harder by facing it with a bad attitude as well?
Charles Dickens wrote, “There is always something to be thankful for.”
There are so many hardships going on in the world today. Our economy is in the worst recession ever. Our dollar is loosing it’s value. More people are out of work than ever. There are more homeless families than there have ever been before. It seems like every time you turn a corner some one is getting cancer. With all this in life going on,and the world going to hell, how ever can a person continue to stay positive?
I was one of those, like so many thousands of other people, who got knocked down when the fall of the real estate market came. Everything was lost, so I felt! The only thing that kept me going was to stay positive no matter how hard it was to do.
I had to keep telling myself that this was not the end. That this was NOT how my life was suppose to be. I had to knock out the negative noise that was in my head and focus on only the positive.
Eventually things got a little better, then I got breast cancer. Talk about a blow to positive thinking! You start questioning yourself, “How can this be happening?” “Why Me?”, “Is there any thing else you want to throw at me?”
I had to think long and hard about this one. What good would it be to become negative now? There really could be many more things that could go wrong. I learned to put a smile back on my face, be happy and stay positive no matter what. I beat that nasty old breast cancer, and my life is getting better and better.
It’s a must now days to find something to be positive about in your life. The best way to do that is to be thankful for what you now have, no matter how small it might be. Even though I lost everything when the real estate market crashed, and then had breast cancer, I still had so much to be grateful for! I was still alive and learned to enjoy the things around me.
“Once you replace the negative thoughts with positive ones you’ll start having positive results!”‘Quote: Willie Nelson’